Dear Readers, Have you ever had a conversation where you told someone you are Ace and they answered: ” Oh don’t worry – I understand!”? It happens very rarely, but… Read More »Dating Story: Don’t worry – I understand!

Dear Readers, We talked about being sex-favorable and sex-repulsed. I feel like it comes with the topic you choose at least at first glance,  but then I realized it’s really… Read More »Being sex-indifferent or sex-ambivalent

Dear Readers, I listen to a shitload of podcasts, I love them. Facts compressed in an hourly format I can listen to whenever and wherever I want. Perfect! And for… Read More »What about commitment?

Dear Readers,I had a fascinating discussion in one of the comment sections on Facebook. That was the first time I came across the term orchidsexuality. As I’m fairly new to… Read More »Orchidsexuality

Dear Readers, my friends often mocked me for “only dating online”. Try it in real life they said. It’s much more honest they said. Well… 😁 let’s say it was… Read More »Dating Story: Speed Dating

Dear Readers,  Some of us feel super comfortable with the label they found for themselves and that’s pretty awesome. But some ACEs are not so sure. Sometimes they feel like… Read More »From aceflux to abrosexual and acespike

Dear Readers, Flirting in general is a difficult territory, but for some of us ACEs it seems even more difficult.  As a Grey-Ace I always felt very insecure about flirting until a very good… Read More »I don´t flirt, it´s just banter – Real life edition